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What Women Want

Its tough being Mel Gibson…you can’t just “go out” for ice cream. You’ve got to have body guards to ward off the paparazzi, drive a block out of your way to lose them, and probably sign a few autographs at the Dairy Queen…what a drag.

Of course NOT being Mel Gibson may not be that much fun either! You probably didn’t get to make out with Helen Hunt, Rene Russo, or hundreds of unknown makeup artists in the back of a trailer. Is that a good thing or not? Only his divorce attorney and accountant will tell you, but the bottom line is, women find him handsome, sexy, charismatic and they simply want him.

What women want is often clouded in mystery. Like men, they want it all. They’d like Tom Hanks as the father to their children and George Clooney to romance. We probably can’t transform you into George or Tom, but with a tiny bit of effort, you can develop some of the magnetic qualities that can DRAMATICALLY increase your sex appeal and have the women (or woman) slipping notes to you at work, at home, or in gym class.

Books about Wisdom: Intelligence

Chicks dig a smart guy. Dump your comic books in the trash and hide the “How to Seduce a Cougar” book for later reference. Books about history, biographies of famous figures and spirituality are all winners. When she comes over and sees you actually read, you’ll be ahead of the pack. Reading to make a difference in your life and the lives of others will make her tingle with delight.

Passion for Your Career: Confidence

So you’re a mail clerk at a no-name company, so what? Your job is either a stepping stone to something else or you are doing your life’s work. Be proud! The more confidence you display in your career, the more attractive you are to women. It used to be the best hunters who had the hottest cavewomen, so you better show her how important you are at communication distribution (Your real title in the mail room) and how the whole enterprise would collapse without you.

Volunteering: Activist

You’ve got 24 hours in a day, buster. I know you want to spend at least 2 of those hours in the sack with Sylvia, so if you want your fair-haired maiden to be totally into you, be sure to invest a few hours per month at the soup kitchen or begging for quarters at the intersection for cerebral palsy. Pick a volunteer organization that actually means something to you or relates to a friend of family member. Who knows, you may actually feel better about yourself in the process and score points with the boss or your mom. All kinds of collateral benefits pop up when you do the right thing.

Gray Hair: Experience

Sales of color treatment for men’s hair are down. We can all thank George Clooney for that! A touch of gray (Especially at the temples) usually drives women wild. Even a full head of gray hair can signify experience, sex appeal and confidence. If you need further proof that silver is the new black, a survey by Match.com found that a whopping 72% of women think gray hair is hot.  Just lose the white beard and gut; otherwise she’ll think you have a part-time job at Macy’s during Christmas.

Cat or Dog: Father figure

Nothing attracts strangers to each other faster than walking a baby or puppy. The innocence and 100% openness to strangers is a sure conversation starter and ice breaker. Babies grow into full blow teenagers pretty quickly, so opting for the puppy is a lot less work and less responsibility. I had a dog named Max years ago. My friends called him the “Chick Magnet” because I could guarantee a casual stroll down the boulevard with him would garner no less than 3 new conversations with women. Now, if only he could sniff out the cute, single, horny women…

Scar: Risk Taker

Scars provide men with a rugged manliness and mystery, which is always sexy. Women want a man who is strong so she can depend on him to protect her and the family. Research backs up why scars are a hit with women. According to science news website, Science Daily, scientists have found that women may associate scars with health and bravery. Scars not only show you’re a courageous guy who’ll take on his opponents, but you’re tough enough to outlive them. Be sure not to lie, but embellish if your scar was the result of a drunken fall off the back porch. “As I reached out to save the baby, I managed to pull her back from the ledge, but went over it myself. Thankfully, the 3 shots of Jack Daniels I had numbed the pain.”

T-shirt & Blazer: Style-savvy

Your favorite sports team t-shirt is very comfortable I am sure. But the pit stains and holes are a definite no-no with her. When you go out, at least try to look like you actually care about your wardrobe. After all, she does! Get an occasional copy of GQ, Men’s Health or other magazine that will give you a clue about what to wear. Be sure to make it age appropriate. Those Ed Hardy shirts just don’t compliment your 401K like the Florsheims did. If you are completely clueless and know it, ask your woman to take you shopping. You’ll get the double dip effect of letting her dress you, getting you looking snappy and giving her the endorphin rush of shopping, all on your dime.

The laws of attraction are sometimes simple and often out of order. What women want is a man that is a leader, provider and supportive partner. Women like sensitive, caring men, of course. But being sensitive in lieu of being masculine won’t get you the hot girl or get back the hot wife you once had. Being balanced isn’t that tough, guys. Become an alpha male with a conscious. For more ideas on understanding what women want and getting more sex in your life, visit http://makeyourwifehot.com today!

How To Dress Sexy & Look Good In Sexy Clothes – Low Cut Dresses & Bum Hugging Jeans Are Out

How to dress sexy, I’ve said it over and over that to come across as sexy is about you and not the clothes you wear. Think about it, hold the dress you tend on wearing out in front of you and what does it say, that’s right “nothing.” Now slip the dress over your curves and see the transformation. If you don’t have curves then add a wiggle to your walk and the dress once again will appear different? Do you see where I am going with this.

Fair enough a low cut dress with a bulging pair of breasts hanging over it, or tight jeans showing the shape of your bits in much intimate detail may no doubt be seen as sexy, but it can all so be seen as sluttish. So forget how to dress sexy and learn more on how to become sexy. To be sexy will include different things like how you present yourself, the way you act, the way you talk even the way you walk. The whole purpose of wanting to look sexy is usually for the sake of others, but it’s difficult because every person has their own opinion on what they see as sexy. So how is it done?

It’s a catch 22 situation if you’re out to impress this way. If we only knew what the other person is thinking would make things much easier, however we don’t, and it’s a chance you have to take. We don’t want the person you’re attracted to… see you as the village bike, but to perceive you as being sexy from the way you present yourself.

Sexy can happen even when wearing baggy pants or high neck blouse. It only takes little things like pouting the lips, wiggling the butt in rhythm with each step you take, or putting on a husky voice to work. But once again will this swing it for you in regards to the person who you want to see you as sexy. Maybe their perception of sexiness is judged if you like, on posture, the way a person laughs or smiles, or the way they sit with their legs crossed, the list is endless. As long as you remember it is not all about dressing sexy, but to be sexy is the key.

Usually, people who look for advice on how to dress sexy, look sexy, or change a body part so it looks more sexier – feel inadequate about them self for some reason or another. Many women gripe wanting their legs more shapely, their figure curvier or their teeth straightened. And these same women who gripe have perfectly shaped legs, an hourglass figure and teeth straighter than a level. So this tells us the problem lies with their way of thinking when it resorts to this.

If you pick up a magazine you’ll read the same old hype that men find women with long hair sexy, and women, the man with a six pack. I am not sure about this. It’s like having a favorite color i.e. I like yellow, and you blue because you see it a prettier shade.

Sexy Tips;

Nurture your personality to bring out sexiness

Develop a sense of humor if you’re miserable

Dress so your individual style gets noticed

A healthy body is a sexy body

Control the way you think because your thoughts make you into the person you are.

Every woman regardless of shape or size can bring on sexy.

A skimpy dress that doesn’t leave much to the imagination is not always the answer.

Sexy tips

Wear your hair in a style that suits your frame, and gives the face a sexy glow. What if I don’t have long hair which is supposedly seen by men as sexy? Not to worry as short hair is sexy also

Cosmetics need to compliment your face. Too much slapstick is for the woman on the street corner waiting for a punter. Use subtle bases to bring out features and skin tone. Keep eye shadow to a minimum. If you believe clothes are the be all and end all of a sexy image then begin with your bra and panties. Proper fitting underwear can make an outfit appear even sexier. A bra that lifts the boobs creating cleavage makes the breasts look fuller. If you have a curvy bottom, then wear high heels, and instead of knickers wear a thong.

Don’t walk with your head down, or slouch. Keep your head in the clouds. Carry confidence with you at all times.

Stop whining it is a complete turn off. There’s nothing sexy about a moaning old biddy.

Quit cigarettes. Smoking is not sexy

Stay sober to stay sexy

Be friendly, everyone wants a friend. Sexy is part of the “you have a friend in me” package.

Smile at every convenience, not only will it make you feel good, but them whom you smile at too.

If you believe sexy is about how you dress then heed of the advice below.

Let the jeans you wear hug your bottom but “not” smother it.

Dark denim is ideal for most body shapes. Wear with a boob tube/bikini top and bright colored strappy heels.

Jewelry is sexy. Wear colorful chunky necklaces and bracelets and bangles. If lots of pearls and beads are your forte, avoid wearing patterned blouses. Wear a monochromatic top with multi-colored jewelry.

Black is voluptuous. It also makes you look slimmer and creates curves.

The thong is sexy so wear one.

Other tips

Go dancing and train your body (salsa, ballet, hip-hop, and ballroom) to move more gracefully and sexily. Think tango and rumba classes to get a feel for movement.

Buy flattering lingerie in a style you haven’t tried before.Choose materials that fall gently on your body and emphasize your curves.

Stockings/Nylons and suspenders are seen as the ultimate sexiest garments

Wear high heels to look taller. When it comes to sexy women’s clothes, there is a thin line separating sexy garments from cheap.

To find out how to dress sexy then go back in time to the fashion of the late great Doris Day, Lauren Bacall, Jane Wyman and the Betty Grable’s. These women oozed sex appeal, “but” was it from the way they dressed that people found them to be sexy, or was it, the Bacall husky voice, Doris Day’s vocals chords, the fact Jane was married to President Ronald Regan, or the million dollar legs of Betty Grable’s. You get to decide if it were their clothes or their other fine qualities that had them seen as sexy.

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